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Is it tight to ask guests to bring a dish?

Am I being tight?Weddings and celebrationsFrom the Vouchernaut deskSaturday 7 November

Is it tight to ask guests to bring a dish?

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In a December 2024 NatWest poll of 2,000 Britons, 38% said they were opting for potluck-style Christmas dinners. Of that group, 57% said the shared meal made the atmosphere more communal and fun, while 53% of those hosting potluck-style meals said guests bringing dishes reduced what they spent. I can see why sharing the cooking might feel more welcoming than asking everyone to pay towards a meal. It also gives guests a part in the occasion, rather than leaving the host to prepare everything.

The custom is far from universal. In a 2023 Researchbods survey, 14% of households expected Christmas guests to contribute to celebration costs. In instantprint's 2023 survey, 15% said they would ask guests to bring a dish. Asking for money is a separate matter: the NatWest poll found 27% felt comfortable requesting a financial contribution. For a festive meal, the detail that matters is whether guests know about the dish request before accepting, and whether bringing food suits them.